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Stable people will require alot more information about someone before they make a commitment, and they will also be much more patient with the entire process.

The very quick commitment on the part of the controller is also a sign of superficiality and shallow emotions, which is also the very reason that the controller can detach from you just as quickly.

More than three of these indicators and you are involved with a Controller in a very high risk relationship that will eventually create damage to you.

The controller will even enlist your sympathy for what they are going through with others and expect you to take their side and support their anger.Years ago men like this were called "Smooth talking sales men and " Con artists." So, they can APPEAR to be good, but in reality they are not only bad, but VERY BAD.A Controller is a type of partner that creates much social, emotional and psychological damage in a relationship.Believe it or not, a controller will be talking about moving in with you or getting married to you in less than four weeks, or very early in the relationship. If your boyfriend or girlfriend blows up and does dangerous things, like driving too fast because they’re mad, road rage, destroying/throwing things, getting into fights, or threatening others - that temper will soon be turned in your direction.In the beginning of the relationship, you will be exposed to “witnessed violence” - fights with others, threats toward others, angry outbursts at others, etc. You will see and witness this temper - throwing things, yelling, cursing, driving fast, hitting the walls, and kicking things.

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